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		<title>Washington job hunt</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 24 Feb 2012 17:43:23 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[This is a continuation of my Washington adventure. The story starts here.  I thought that I&#8217;d be able to write this on the way to Washington.  Nope.  Too busy.  Anyway, the story continues&#8230; So I started looking for jobs in &#8230; <a href="http://dickdonohue.com/2012/02/washington-job-hunt/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><em>This is a continuation of my Washington adventure. The story starts <a href="http://dickdonohue.com/2012/02/the-adventure-begins/">here</a>.  I thought that I&#8217;d be able to write this on the way to Washington.  Nope.  Too busy.  Anyway, the story continues&#8230;</em></p>
<p>So I started looking for jobs in the Seattle area. I have worked for 26 years on computers that were originally (and still) called AS/400s, so one of the best sites I found was <a href="http://getas400jobs.net">GetAS400Jobs.net</a>. It became apparent pretty quickly that aside from some short-term contracting positions, the big players were Costco Wholesale and REI. I saw positions for both and applied for both. I knew that if God wanted me to get to Washington, He had the ability and desire to get me a good job in Washington. I didn&#8217;t hear from Costco.  The first &#8220;bite&#8221; that I got was from REI, a company that Fortune magazine says is one of the &#8220;top 10 companies to work for in the US.&#8221;. I&#8217;d have to learn some new software, but it was just RPG programming language. I&#8217;ve been doing that for decades. I could do this job!<span id="more-349"></span></p>
<p>After a couple of interviews with a really great HR recruiter named Cindy, I thought, &#8220;This must be the great job that God had intended for me&#8221;. The only downside is that they wanted me to start a month before my daughter was due to go back to her mom&#8217;s (6 months with me/6 months with Mom) . I made it through three interviews and by then was told there were only 2 other candidates. The next call would be REI calling to say they&#8217;d fly me out for a face-to-face interview.</p>
<p>Here comes my lesson in humility:  I did get the call from Cindy. But not the one I expected. I think she was sincerely disappointed. But they decided to go with somebody local. He had been out work a while, and some of the REI programmers had worked with him before. I was so sure that this had been the great job God had planned for me, but it wasn&#8217;t.</p>
<p>It makes sense that they went with somebody they knew.  I know that, in the past, I have been able to get good jobs in Michigan because of somebody I knew.  But I didn&#8217;t know anybody in Washington.  But I didn&#8217;t know anybody in Washington.  So my first thought was that I needed to make my social network include people in Washington.  As far as I knew, the only person that I knew in Washington was Cindy, the REI recruiter. So I asked her if she would be part of my Linked-In network.  She was more than gracious and indicated that if there was anybody that I wanted to know in her (extensive!!) network, just ask and she&#8217;d introduce me.   And she did introduce me to somebody who had a contract job.  As it turned out the job, would be at REI!  So I thought: there&#8217;s a way that God can get me into REI.  But here&#8217;s the problem:  I was trying to make things happen to reach my goals.  I wasn&#8217;t letting God take care of things.  Eventually, it because apparent to me that a contract job was not what God had intended.  I let go and let God and resigned to just keeping my eyes open for jobs on the internet.</p>
<p>Then one night, I saw a posting from Costco for a Turnover Administrator.  &#8221;Turnover&#8221; is software that runs on an AS/400 that basically makes sure that two programmers are not working on the the same program at the same time.    Now, seven years ago, we had started using Turnover at DENSO and I was their administrator.  I really like the software.  When we first got it, the people that make Turnover said that it is pretty complex and we should have somebody come in and train us.  So we hired a Turnover consultant named Greg King to come in to teach us Turnover.  He was only there for about 2 days (and that was seven years ago).  Fast-forward to 2012, Greg is now a Turnover Administrator for Costco Wholesale.  He is moving to a different position within Costco and they were looking for somebody to take his place.  They showed him the resumes of the applicants and he looked at mine and said, &#8220;that name seems familiar&#8221; and &#8220;we should talk to him&#8221;.  Greg went back to his old consulting records and confirmed that I was, indeed, the guy he remembered from Battle Creek, Michigan.   Costco sent me an email to let me know that I had a telephone interview with people from Costco and one of the names was Greg King.  I saw that and said, &#8220;that name seems familiar&#8221; so I called the help desk for Turnover and confirmed that Greg was the guy that had taught me how to set up Turnover.   So God <strong>had</strong> provided somebody in Washington who knew me!!   The telephone interview went great.  Greg and I both acknowledge that we remembered each other.  After the interview, Costco set up an <strong>all</strong> expenses paid trip for me and my wife, Sherry to come to Washington for a weekend and have a face-to-face interview.   The weekend was fantastic (it was warm and never rained!) and eventually they called and offered me a job.  Roughly three weeks after that, I started as a Costco employee.</p>
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		<title>The Adventure Begins</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 09 Feb 2012 03:05:53 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Dick Donohue</dc:creator>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>A new adventure in faith has turned my life upside down. It all started back in November of 2011. I have been working out early in the mornings and, after working out, I find a quiet place in the gym and spend some time reading my bible and praying. I remembered a phrase that my friend Terry had used: &#8220;God, please tell me what is &#8220;the next right thing to do&#8221;. So that was my prayer that morning. Lily Tomlin has this great line:</p>
<blockquote><p>&#8220;Why is it that when we talk to God, we are &#8216;praying&#8217;, but when HE talks to us, we&#8217;re schizophrenic?</p></blockquote>
<p>Well, at the risk of sounding schizophrenic, I think God talked to me.  I think He said, <span id="more-333"></span> &#8221;Washington!&#8221;   Huh?  What did <strong>that</strong> mean?   Somehow I knew that he meant Washington State.  But I&#8217;ve never been to Washington.  I have two brothers that have moved there in the last 3 years, but other than that, I had no connection to Washington at all.  I didn&#8217;t say anything to anybody for a few days, but each morning, as I prayed for clarification, the message was the same: &#8220;Go to Washington&#8221;.</p>
<p>Finally, I talked about it with my wife, Sherry.  I said, &#8220;This is going to sound crazy, but I&#8217;ve been praying a lot lately&#8230;and I&#8217;ve been getting a really weird message&#8230; I think God wants us to move to Washington&#8221;<br />
Sherry&#8217;s eyes got as big as saucers and she said, &#8220;Washington State, right?&#8221;.<br />
&#8220;Yes! How did you know it&#8217;s not Washington D.C.?&#8221;<br />
Sherry replied, &#8220;&#8230;because for the past few days, I think God has been telling me &#8216;Seattle&#8217;!&#8221;</p>
<p><em>(Did you just get goosebumps, too?)</em></p>
<p>So we decided we&#8217;d better figure out just who was talking to us. And that we needed more  clarification.  After two weeks or so of praying together and praying separately, we decided that it really was God, and that not only were we supposed to <em>go</em> to Seattle, but He wants us to <em>move</em> there.  So I started looking on-line for jobs in Washington.</p>
<p>There&#8217;s more to this story and I&#8217;ll be blogging about it on my way to Washington!</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
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		<title>Seven year anniversary</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 03 Dec 2011 12:29:46 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Today, I&#8217;m celebrating an anniversary of sorts.  Seven years ago today, I started a blog because had just been diagnosed with the &#8220;incurable&#8221; disease of Follicular B-Cell Non-Hodgkin Lymphoma.  I wanted to let my friends and family know what was &#8230; <a href="http://dickdonohue.com/2011/12/seven-year-anniversary/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Today, I&#8217;m celebrating an anniversary of sorts.  Seven years ago today, I started a blog because had just been diagnosed with the &#8220;incurable&#8221; disease of Follicular B-Cell Non-Hodgkin Lymphoma.  I wanted to let my friends and family know what was going on and my feelings.  That blog was on Blogger.  I moved it to my site and you can still <a title="My old lymphoma blog" href="http://blog.dickdonohue.com" target="_blank">read it</a>, but because the entries are in date descending order, it is a little difficult to read.  So I spent some time and rearranged the text and put it in story-form.  I have saved it in a pdf that you can read:  <a href="http://dickdonohue.com/wp-content/uploads/Dick-Donohue-My-Lymphoma-Story.pdf">Dick Donohue &#8211; My Lymphoma Story.pdf</a>  I try to re-read my own story every year because it helps me to realize what an incredible move of God I was experiencing.</p>
<p>Today, I am still cancer-free, due to the grace of God and the prayers of friends and family.  So once again, I say thank you to God because I know that only God can cure incurable forms of cancer.  And I say thank you to all the friends and family that prayed for me &#8211; you know who you are.  I owe the last seven years of my life, in part, to you.</p>
<p>God bless us, every one.</p>
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		<title>The 5 &#8220;Why&#8221;s</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 21 Nov 2011 12:37:46 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[One of the great things that I learned from working with a Japanese company is an apparently ancient technique for finding the root cause of a problem. They call it &#8220;The 5 Whys&#8221;. The basic premise is that you ask &#8230; <a href="http://dickdonohue.com/2011/11/the-5-whys/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>One of the great things that I learned from working with a Japanese company is an apparently ancient technique for finding the root cause of a problem. They call it &#8220;The 5 Whys&#8221;.</p>
<p>The basic premise is</p>
<p><span id="more-315"></span></p>
<p>that you ask &#8220;why&#8221; 5 times and you will come to the root cause of a problem. Many times you can get to the root cause in less than 5 questions. I&#8217;m told that this is very similar to a method that was employed by Socrates, but, the Japanese have been around a lot longer than the Greeks, so I suspect that the Japanese learned it first.</p>
<p>Here&#8217;s an example that shows how it works: (and this just made up):</p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;">Q1. Why was the part defective?<br />
A. Because the machine was not calibrated correctly.</p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;">Q2. Why was the machine was not calibrated correctly?<br />
A. Because the regular maintenance was not performed.</p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;">Q3. Why wasn&#8217;t it performed?<br />
A. Because Bob was out sick and he&#8217;s the only one who knows how to calibrate that machine.</p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;">Q4. Why is Bob the only one who knows how to calibrate the machine?<br />
A. Because we never trained anybody else on that machine.<br />
Q5. Why haven&#8217;t we trained anybody else?<br />
A. Because we haven&#8217;t given Bob the time to train anybody else.</p>
<p>The conclusion: Provide time to train other employees and we can avoid defects like this in the future.</p>
<p>It is a great technique and often you can find more than one root cause. For example, question 4 could have been &#8220;why was Bob sick?&#8221; Asking the right questions takes practice.</p>
<p>Try it out. See if it works for you. Let me know if you have success!</p>
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		<title>Be a leaf</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 26 Sep 2011 11:39:09 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Dick Donohue</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Who doesn&#8217;t love seeing the beauty of the leaves changing color in Autumn? It always makes me reflect on why God would go to the trouble of making leaves so pretty before they die. I mean, it seems like it &#8230; <a href="http://dickdonohue.com/2011/09/be-a-leaf/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Who doesn&#8217;t love seeing the beauty of the leaves changing color in Autumn?<br />
<img class="alignright size-thumbnail wp-image-301" title="red_leaf" src="http://dickdonohue.com/wp-content/uploads/red_leaf-150x150.jpg" alt="" width="150" height="150" />It always makes me reflect on why God would go to the trouble of making leaves so pretty before they die. I mean, it seems like it would have been easier to just drop the leaves without changing color; or maybe just take all the color out if them: let the leaves turn gray or black as death and let them drop to the ground.</p>
<p>But I think God chose to make Autumn beautiful on purpose.<span id="more-297"></span></p>
<p>You see, God loves us. We are His children and He wants us to be happy. <a title="For I have plans for you" href="http://bible.us/Jer29.11.NIV" target="_blank">(Jer 29:11)</a> Think about the new dad who plays peek-a-boo with his infant child. It is an exercise solely designed to elicit delight in his child. I think God wants to delight us with the beauty he can create. That&#8217;s why the Autumn leaves (and sunsets) are so beautiful.</p>
<p>Interestingly, sunsets and Autumn are times that we typically think of as the end (or the death) of something.   There are some that will tell you that when you die, that&#8217;s the end.  When they go to a funeral, they think it is the end of that person&#8217;s life.  But they will be looking down at the body. That&#8217;s just the house you live in while your here.  But as Christians, we know another day will dawn; another Spring will come; and after this life is another life spent with Jesus.  And God seems intent on showing us, on a regular basis, that what we see as the end, is actually cause for great celebration.</p>
<p>So our lives are not so different from that of a leaf.  When we are young, we try to find our place in the world and grow, grow, grow!  Our goal is to be big, strong, and productive. But hopefully,  you will grow to realize that there is more to this world than just this world.  Hopefully, you will appreciate and reflect God&#8217;s beauty more and more every day. Become more willing to do whatever God has planned for you &#8212; even if it means you have to leave this world to do it. And one day, He will pick you up in His hands and away you will fly!</p>
<p>And won&#8217;t that be delightful?!</p>
<p>Shalom!</p>
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		<title>Showing Rank in SQL Record set</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 02 Dec 2010 05:00:08 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Dick Donohue</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Sometimes you want to show the ranking of the record in the results of your SQL SELECT statement.  How do you do that in DB2? Here&#8217;s how: If you are on an System i (aka AS/400, iSeries), there is a &#8230; <a href="http://dickdonohue.com/2010/12/showing-rank-in-sql-record-set/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Sometimes you want to show the ranking of the record in the results of your SQL SELECT statement.  How do you do that in DB2? Here&#8217;s how:</p>
<p><span id="more-281"></span><em>If you are on an System i (aka AS/400, iSeries), there is a nice little table that is great for trying out SQL tricks.  Everybody has it: QIWS/QCUSTCDT. </em></p>
<pre>SELECT RANK() OVER (ORDER BY LSTNAM), A.*
   FROM QIWS/QCUSTCDT A</pre>
<p>This will show all a derived field called &#8220;RANK&#8221;, and then all the fields in the table.  Since you have sorted the data by LSTNAM and you created the rank over the same field, the first record in your result set will have a rank of 1.  The second will have a rank of  2, etc.</p>
<p>But the really interesting thing is that the rank doesn&#8217;t need to be over the field that you order the results.  For example, if you wanted to rank the records by who had the largest balance due, but still sort the list by last name you could do this:</p>
<pre>SELECT RANK() OVER (ORDER BY BALDUE DESC), A.*
   FROM QIWS/QCUSTCDT A
   ORDER BY LSTNAM</pre>
<p>Does this help?  Leave a comment.</p>
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		<title>The real joy of kite-flying</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 30 May 2009 22:35:04 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I think that God is constantly trying talk to us.  I think that He wants to guide us.  The tough part is finding time alone where life is quiet enough to hear him.  One of the more successful ways for &#8230; <a href="http://dickdonohue.com/2009/05/the-real-joy-of-kite-flying/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><img class="alignright size-full wp-image-161" title="kite" src="http://dickdonohue.com/wp-content/uploads/kite.jpg" alt="kite" width="300" height="200" />I think that God is constantly trying talk to us.  I think that He wants to guide us.  The tough part is finding time alone where life is quiet enough to hear him.  One of the more successful ways for me to do that is to go fly a kite. I really enjoy flying kites.  The kites I fly are &#8220;stunt kites&#8221; which basically means that they have two lines instead of one.  That means that you can make them do loop-de-loops, dives, and all kinds of fun maneuvers.  The bottom line is that you have a lot more control over the kite. And &#8212; I&#8217;ll admit it &#8212; I have control issues.    Today, I had the day to myself and nobody to remind me of all my responsibilities and grown-up issues.  So I took the time to go fly my kite.  And I think God used that time to talk to me&#8230;</p>
<p><span id="more-159"></span>Just to be clear, it&#8217;s not like I was having some audible conversation.  It&#8217;s not like the clouds parted and a voice from the sky bellowed like James Earl Jones ,  &#8220;Hey Dick, how&#8217;s it going? How &#8217;bout those Cubbies?&#8221;  It wasn&#8217;t like that at all.  It was this very quiet voice in my mind that comes up with things that seem to be random thoughts.  They make me ask myself &#8220;Where the heck did <em>that</em> thought come from?  I wasn&#8217;t thinking about that at all. &#8220;  If I wasn&#8217;t thinking about it, who was?  I figure that it is the small, still voice of God &#8211; or maybe I&#8217;m nuts.    (There&#8217;s a great quote from Lily Tomlin: &#8220;Why is it when we talk to God, we are praying.  But when He talks to us, we&#8217;re schizophrenic?&#8221;).  Anyway, most of the time, He doesn&#8217;t give me any great new revelations, He just points out stuff I already knew &#8211; or maybe I knew it, but never really thought about it much &#8211; in which case, since <strong>God</strong> has just pointed it out.. maybe I should give it some thought.</p>
<p>I thought I&#8217;d share some things that He pointed out to me today.</p>
<ul>
<li><strong>Joy </strong>- Of all the emotions that we humans can feel, &#8220;joy&#8221; has got to be at the top of the list of the best emotions.  It is amazing how much work we will do for just a little joy. I actually spent way more time untangling string, winding string, setting up the kite, waiting for wind, and struggling to keep the kite up  &#8211; than I did actually flying and enjoying the kite actually flying.  But it was worth it.  I had a blast when it was really going well.  We&#8217;ll wait for hours in line to spend 2 minutes on a roller coaster ride.  Atheletes spend hours upon hours practicing and training so that they can have a few moments to experience the joy of victory.  Joy is a precious commodity.  It is something to be savored.  And it rarely comes without preperation.  You have to seek joy.</li>
<li><strong>Making Joy &#8211; </strong>Perhaps the trick is to not see the preparation as a horrible chore that is required to bring about joy.  Perhaps the trick is to find joy in doing something that will bring joy.  I could look at the winding and untangling of kite string with disdain.  Or I could look at it as just part of the formula for flying kites.  Here&#8217;s another example: Instead of focusing on the tediousness of making a cake, you say &#8220;Yum, this is going to be good&#8221;.  I guess the trick is to find joy in the anticipation.   In the computer industry, we call this a paradigm shift.  Change your perspective and you can change your world.</li>
<li><strong>It is not Good for man to be alone</strong> &#8211; (This is straight outta Genesis) Even something as solitary as kite-flying is easier when you have a helper.  On days (like today) when the wind is inconsistant, kites will drop to the ground.  Without somebody to hold the kite up again, I had to wind the string up to the point where I could hold the kite up and let it catch the the wind again.  I got to the point where I was ok with that process, but I couldn&#8217;t help but think how much easier it would be with a helper &#8211; but it would have to be a helper who was committed to helping me find my joy (flying the kite, in this case).  That reminded me that I need to be open to the times when I can be a helper to help somebody else find joy.</li>
<li><strong>God is in control</strong> &#8211; even with all the control that I get with two lines on a stunt kite, I am still at the mercy of the wind (provided by God).  No matter how much I wanted the kite to fly, if there was no wind, it wasn&#8217;t going to fly.  It was a reminder to me that no matter how much I like to think I&#8217;m in control, I&#8217;m not.</li>
<li><strong>Joy is natural &#8211; </strong>I had a great time flying my kite.  But it wasn&#8217;t just the kite that brought me joy, it was the time spent alone with God.  I didn&#8217;t need any batteries or even electricity; I didn&#8217;t need special software or hardware; I didn&#8217;t have to have network access.  Heck, it didn&#8217;t even cost me a dime.  It was just me, God, His beautiful sky and a kite that reminded me how great it is to be in the presence of the One who really <strong>is</strong> in control.</li>
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<p>I think I&#8217;m going to go make a cake, now.  Ymmm, this is going to be good!</p>
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		<title>facebook, a great social experiment</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 22 Feb 2009 20:51:17 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Dick Donohue</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Well, I can honestly say that I never saw this one coming.   I&#8217;m on facebook now.  I have always avoided the social networking sites because I thought that they were a waste of time (and&#8230;well&#8230; they are).   I do &#8230; <a href="http://dickdonohue.com/2009/02/facebook/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Well, I can honestly say that I never saw this one coming.   I&#8217;m on <a title="Dick Donohue on facebook" href="http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=1064301634" target="_blank">facebook</a> now.  I have always avoided the social networking sites because I thought that they were a waste of time (and&#8230;well&#8230; they are).   I do have a <a title="Dick Donohue on MySpace" href="http://myspace.com/dickdonohue" target="_blank">MySpace page</a> but I pretty much ignore it.  I only wanted it because, if MySpace ever became cool, I wanted to snag the page name &#8220;myspace.com/dickdonohue&#8221; (yea, it&#8217;s an ego thing).    There are a lot of really ugly MySpace pages and that didn&#8217;t help the coolness factor.  But now, with 90,000 sex offenders getting <a href="http://www.cnn.com/2009/TECH/02/03/myspace.sex.offenders/" target="_blank">kicked off</a>, it doesn&#8217;t appear that most people will be viewing MySpace  as a cool place any time soon. Just to be clear:  I&#8217;m saying that hanging out where sex offenders hang out is not cool.  I&#8217;m not saying that now that all the sex offenders have left, the place has no appeal!  <img src='http://dickdonohue.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_biggrin.gif' alt=':-D' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>But facebook has really surprised me.  It started when a friend created a facebook group for the band I&#8217;m in (<a title="Great Buncha Guys on facebook" href="http://www.facebook.com/group.php?gid=49816482826" target="_blank">Great Buncha Guys</a>).  Then one of the other guys in the band invited me to join facebook.   So I figured I would create an account and it would be just another social networking site to ignore.   For the next 2-3 days my email was flooded!  I&#8217;ve hooked up with old high school and college friends, friends from church and all over.  I admit that it has been fun to go back and reconnect with some folks.</p>
<p>For me, facebook has proven to be an interesting adventure in social science.  And it has me fascinated.  I&#8217;ve been spending a lot of time on facebook lately.  (I&#8217;m sure that it is an unhealthy amount of time.)  Here are some observations that I have found particularly interesting:<span id="more-146"></span></p>
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<li><strong>facebook redefines &#8220;friend</strong>&#8220;.<br />
My wife is my best friend.  I have people that I call my good friends.  I have lots of acquaintances.  And there are friends of my friends that I recognize when I see them.  But I don&#8217;t really know anything about them.  To facebook, all these people and more are potential facebook-friends.  If I went to Portage Northern High School in 1979 and so-and-so is going to graduate from the same place in 2010, facebook thinks we might want to be facebook-friends.  The daughter of an acquaintance could be a facebook-friend.  To me, being a facebook-friend is not near as big a boast as being a real-world friend.</li>
<li><strong>facebook  causes you to personally define &#8220;just who is my friend?&#8221; </strong><br />
I have one friend (a real friend, not a facebook-friend) with over 700 facebook-friends.  Really! Obviously, we have different criterion for &#8220;who do I want as a friend?&#8221;.  Initially, if somebody said that they wanted to be my facebook-friend, I just automatically said yes.  I didn&#8217;t want to offend.  But I&#8217;ve become more selective now.  If there is some guy in my high school graduation class who never gave me the time of day or who always looked at me with disdain, I&#8217;m sorry, you are not going to be my facebook-friend.   I actually had one guy who felt we should be facebook-friends because he graduated with my older brother.  I don&#8217;t know the guy.  He lives in a different state.   I added him.  It was a pity-add.  But I have since removed him from my friends list.  And I have ignored friend requests.  Does that make me a facebook-snob?</li>
<li><strong>In facebook, you have to ask to be friends.<br />
</strong>In facebook, to become somebody&#8217;s friend, you essentially have to ask them  &#8220;Can I be your friend?&#8221;  They send you a friend request and you can either say &#8220;yes&#8221; or ignore it.  Ignoring a friend request has the same affect as saying &#8220;no&#8221; except that they don&#8217;t get explicitly rejected.  So facebook has taken out a huge impediment to becoming a friend.  This is interesting because in the real-world, people have just become my friends through shared experiences.  I have rarely asked anybody face-to-face &#8220;Can I be your friend?&#8221;  On the other hand, in real-life, if you asked me if so-and-so was my friend, I might shrug andsay &#8220;yea, I guess so.&#8221;  But if you asked me if somebody is my facebook-friend, I could give you a definite answer.</li>
<li><strong>facebook is like an psychotic  little sister who just refuses to be ignored.</strong> It doesn&#8217;t matter what you do,  facebook is sitting there watching you.  And if you do something, she feels the need to tell on you.  And she doesn&#8217;t just tell a couple of people, she tells every friend you have what you have done as if it is breaking news  &#8220;Dick uploaded a picture!! Dick uploaded a picture!!&#8221;  And she doesn&#8217;t just post it on their wall, she sends an email, too. &#8220;Dick uploaded a picture!! Dick uploaded a picture!!&#8221; .   &#8220;Dick said something to somebody!&#8221;  It&#8217;s a little crazy.  So be careful what you do on facebook.  Every conversation is an extremely public conversation.  Whatever you do will be broadcast to the entire world.  Personally,  I&#8217;m scared to update information on my profile anymore.</li>
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<p>If nothing else, facebook highlights the need that we all have to be accepted, to be part of a community, to have a support system.   There&#8217;s an old song that goes &#8220;Make new friends and keep the old.  One is silver and the other is gold.&#8221;  And even though facebook-friends are a dime-a-dozen, I think the point is that there is value in any friendship.  Even a facebook-friendship.</p>
<p>Peace!</p>
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		<title>My New iPod and My Old Friends</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 23 Jul 2008 05:45:09 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Dick Donohue</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Ok, I know I&#8217;m a Johnny-come-lately to this game, but I just got an iPod.  My birthday was last week and my wife surprised me with an 80 GB iPod Classic.  I have to admit that I&#8217;m a little surprised &#8230; <a href="http://dickdonohue.com/2008/07/my-new-ipod-and-my-old-friends/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
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<p>Ok, I know I&#8217;m a Johnny-come-lately to this game, but I just got an iPod.  My birthday was last week and my wife surprised me with an 80 GB iPod Classic.  I have to admit that I&#8217;m a little surprised by the effect it has had on me.  First, I&#8217;ve got a ton of CDs that I have ripped &amp; burned so that I can play them in the car&#8230; or at least I thought it was a ton.   But the iPod has got me going through my whole music library. Turns out that I had maybe one quarter of my music on my computer.  Now (and I&#8217;m not done yet, I still have about 15 more CDs to go), I have over 2,400 songs on my computer (and on my new iPod).   And that has not even made a dent into the available space on that 80GB iPod.    I sorta obsessed on iTunes all weekend ripping my CDs for hours at a time.  But what really caught me off-guard with the new iPod was <span id="more-35"></span>the joy of going through and rediscovering all my music.  See, in the search for more CDs to fill the iPod, I&#8217;m finding CDs that I had totally forgotten.  Now I&#8217;m rating them and organizing them.  Was it just me or do all teenage boys fancy themselves as some kind of audiophile?  When I was in high school, I could name every album I had, what songs were on them, who played what instruments.  Now, going back and looking and listening to this music again,  it is like finding long lost friends.</p>
<p>The really interesting thing is that, in the search for album art, I&#8217;m going out on the web and getting updates on some artists that I hadn&#8217;t listened to in years.  I rediscovered <a title="Billy McLaughlin - guitarist" href="http://billymacmusic.com" target="_blank">Billy McLaughlin</a>, a phenomenal guitarist.  Turns out that Billy has a neurological disorder called focal dystonia that causes him to lose control of his left hand.  Think about it: a guitarist who can&#8217;t control his left had.  It ended his career.  But apparently Billy McLaughlin has rediscovered himself.  He has taught himself how to play all his songs (which are amazing) using his right hand.  And he&#8217;s still (maybe even more) phenomenal that he was back then.  Talk about being dedicated to your craft!  Way cool.  I rediscovered <a href="http://www.jeweljk.com/" target="_blank">Jewel</a> who I only sorta liked in the 80s.  But I went out to her web site.  She has a new country music album out and it sounds pretty good.  (Although I don&#8217;t think her music has changed much &#8212; &#8220;Country&#8221; music has been redefined since the 1980s).</p>
<p>I&#8217;m reminded that, of all the gifts that God gives us, music has got to be one of the best.  It stirs my emotions and gives me life all over again.  What an incredible thing to be able to almost instantly recall and listen to any song in my music collection.</p>
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